When you become a parent, and take your new-born home, one thing that they don't give you, is a 'How to be a successful parent' manual. Being a parent is something that you will learn as you go along, a skill that you will develop. There are sometimes as many obstacles as there are highlights!
Fortunately, for when things become difficult, there are many sources of information that you can turn to for advice. UK Net Guide has links with some of the best parenting advice websites on the internet.
These sites will offer advice on how to encourage and motivate your child and to build their self esteem; whilst recognising the need for establishing yourself as a respected authority figure. Being a parent is a matter of balancing being kind but firm!
One of the problems that all parents face, is one of trying not to reward negative behaviour and trying to show that a temper tantrum or argument will not be beneficial for the child. Sometimes, after a hard day at work, it is hard to take a step back from an argument and look at the bigger picture.
That bigger picture is, of course, that you want the most for your child and want to encourage the good and positive things in their lives. Parenting is not an easy task, but you are not alone! There are websites and support groups to help you.